Turning 40

Turning 40 is indeed a significant milestone for many men and women. It's a time when one realizes they are no longer as young as they once were, but not quite old either. This stage of life often brings reflection and introspection. You may start to consider the moments of grief, heartbreak, and changes in health that have marked your journey so far. Visits to the doctor might become more frequent, and the ticking of the biological clock becomes more noticeable. Such reflections can lead to questions about whether you've achieved your goals, sometimes leading to overthinking.

However, the truth is, surviving to this point is an achievement in itself. Life doesn't end at 40; it can just be the beginning of a new, fulfilling chapter. With 40 years of experience, you start to understand that the truly important things in life aren't monetary. You find joy in spending time with family, exploring new hobbies like cooking, or taking that long-awaited trip you had previously put off due to work commitments. The saying "Life is what you make it" resonates deeply, and you start truly living.

This August, I embraced this mindset by throwing a beautiful 40th birthday bash. It was a celebration that brought together both sides of my family, friends, and those who have become like family over the years. The event took place on August 5th in downtown Charleston at the Homewood Suites in their Magnolia Ballroom. Everything was perfect.

I ensured every detail was meticulously planned. I had my makeup done professionally by Tierra Nichole of Tierra Nichole Artistry in Charleston, SC. To capture the memories, I hired a photographer, videographer, and even added a photo 360 machine from Ninety 7 Frames. My fantastic DJ, Christy Wilder, whom I found on Facebook months in advance, kept the party lively. For an extra special touch, saxophonist Joshua Bryan (sax_5thavenue on Instagram) played while my guests enjoyed their meal.

It was a day I will never forget, filled with joy, love, and cherished moments.